Ideas often shared in consultations work both ways.
You probably recount a few pet phrases to clients and prospects. These pearls of wisdom point to best practices honed over the years.
Here are three Falk-isms, their back stories and their current use:
Why HER and Not ME? was the subject line of an email I sent to Chief Marketing Officers of large law firms in 2009. It tapped into the competitive personalities of attorneys and the envy that men especially (and women) would feel when a female colleague with a similar background was quoted in a news article.
I had lost my job as a Public Relations professional at an agency serving law firm clients a few weeks prior. I reached out to the law firm CMO’s to introduce myself as someone who could connect their attorneys to reporters. One fellow replied that mine was the best sales pitch [he] ever received. However, he didn’t have any work for me.
This phrase subsequently made its way into my elevator pitch: “When you see someone in your line of business quoted in the news, do you think, “Why are they talking to HER and Not ME? I know all about that. And I’m much better looking.” (which inevitably draws a laugh).
This question later became a presentation for continuing legal education that I developed with Patricia Werschulz, a patent attorney. I discussed the mechanics of contacting reporters, and she addressed the ethical issues of speaking to the press, in May 2016. Over the years, I have spoken to professional associations and other groups on this topic.
I further shared these best practices as a guest on podcasts and adapted the material for presentations to women’s organizations.
The topic remains a favorite with bar associations; one year it was the Lawline webinar most frequently viewed by attorneys in New Jersey.
Today, I present it with the gender-neutral title Why That Executive and Not ME?
Everyone knows someone worth knowing first saw print in my December 2014 newsletter under the presumptuous title Networking Towards the King. My approach to networking is to gather resources among the attendees at the event.
Everyone in business has a problem and everyone has a solution to another’s problem. I aim to meet three people at a networking program; I endeavor to learn about the problems that professional faces and the solutions they bring to the marketplace. In the moment, or after the event, I reflect on who might be a good contact for them, either because the new connection is a problem-solver or they might welcome a solution to their issue.
Here’s how this approach played out in real life. On a recreational hike, I met Scott Smalley, the Immediate Past President of the International Academy of Physician Associate Educators. The group focuses on promoting physician associate and PA analogue educational programs and achieving accreditation with medical and governmental organizations. A few days later, I spoke with Jennifer Flowers at a networking event. She “helps behavioral health, human service, and education organizations achieve accreditation.” It’s a rather niche practice – and a possible resource for Smalley. It was my pleasure to introduce the two by email.
When connecting two professionals in my circles, I usually ask the person I spoke with last if they are interested in meeting one of my connections; accordingly, I invite them to send me a referral bio. I then email this paragraph about their background to my long-standing contact and ask about their interest in hearing from this individual. It’s always best to check with both parties, in case the two people are already acquainted.
Why YOU, Why NOW, Why Should Anyone Care? A reporter told me that her editors always wanted to know Why NOW? when she proposed writing a news story. I’ve subsequently expanded this single question to address the three questions that probably are swirling in a reporter’s mind when I pitch a story idea or a client as a source:
- Why YOU? What makes you a reliable, authoritative and accessible source when there are many others like you with similar credentials and experience?
- Why NOW? Why are you contacting the reporter today and not last week or last month? What has changed in the market or industry?
- Why Should Anyone Care? How will your idea help another person, whether an individual, a business owner or a corporate executive?
The repeated word Why and the use of three questions make this series memorable – and actionable.
This Falk-ism is especially helpful when a prospective client thinks that news about their company belongs on the front page of The Wall Street Journal. The questions plot a roadmap to articulate the reasons why anyone (or a target audience) should listen to their insightful view, which helps me pitch the person to the media.
This Month’s Tip
You are in the YOU business, no one else is.After you find yourself sharing a repeated phrase, turn it back on yourself. Pause and see how you might implement the very idea and activity you recommended to someone else.
I enjoy giving FREE advice; I GUARANTEE TWO IDEAS in every initial consultation. When the conversation ends, I put myself in the other party’s shoes and put that suggestion to work for me, as well.nose.
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If these Falk-isms and pearls of wisdom strike a chord with you, there’s plenty more of them. Contact me at Janet@JanetLFalk.com, set an appointment here or call me at 212.677.5770. Together, we’ll review my (and your) frequent phrases that are most relevant to your business..
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